Sambandh

Janu chu hu tane ghana samay thi Pan lage che aa olakh juni che Bolvano samay nathi shabdo thi Pan toy ek bijane samji laiye che Su naam apvu khabar nathi Ek anokhu Sambandh j che! 

Samay

Ghana varso viti gaya  Apdi vaat na thaya ne Pan aaje te ek vakya ma janavi didhu Ke samay vityo che sambandh nai!

God's grace

We tend to take credit of whatever we do. No there is nothing wrong in doing it but we should stop and thing- - what did I do to reach here.  - who helped me in the process. - how did i manage to do all this. - am i worthy of what i have got. How many of us introspect ourselves on regular basis. Some will say this is irrelevant. But then why do we crib when we are in pain, why do we curse when we have sorrow. If we can accept failure only then we can truly enjoy happiness and success. We must always understand that we have Gods hand on us which keeps us going in life. Embrace gods grace and your everyday will be new and worth living.

Stress buster

We all get stressed out every now and then. We need some outlet. We want to stay away from the people we know. We don't want to talk to anyone. We want our own space.  We have had those bad fays when everything is horrible. We have those emotions who don't listen to us. We have those times when we don't want to act rational.  And then we need stress buster. Something that will make things normal. Something that will make us forget everything that is bad.  My stress buster is drawing mandalas. They help me concentrate and meditate. They also help me channel my energies to do one thing. More pictures on @mandala90world on instagram.

"નામ"

હુ જિવું છુ કે આ મારી કલ્પના છે આજુબાજુ મારી માણસોની ભીડ છે મારુ ચારીત્ર્ય એજ મારી ઓલખાણ છે એ ભીડમાં મારુ એક અલગ નામ છે.

ज़िंदगी

कितनी कोशिशें की उन्हें भूलने की लम्बी कतार लगी ख़्वाहिशों की अगर ना होते तुम  तो बातें ना होती हौंसलों की

Perception

It is difficult to define something in this world as every single person will have different opinion or a different angel to it. We have all heard about the story of glass half full or half empty. Is it really a different outlook or is it just two sides of one coin? As kids we are taught definitions for every single word, explained logic behind theories and proven with methodical experiments but do we use any of that in our lives. Do we actually remember those definitions while communicating with our friends, or think about law of physics when driving on an icy road or use the experiments of chemistry while cooking. But while we were gaining the knowledge, we started understanding the world in our way. We formed our own opinions about everything around us. We created our own world of Perception which could be right or wrong.  Perception has two definitions: • the ability to see, hear, or become aware of something through the senses -This can be different for each individual as a person's ability and capability would not be he same. Like the basic knowledge of human body and how it functions.  • the way in which something is regarded, understood, or interpreted. - This can be generalized based on the affects of environment on a person. Asians are good cooks is a perception of people in west.  Till yesterday i had strong belief that a persons perception cannot be changed but Today somebody changed the way i see towards life and that made me realize that Perceptions can be changed. It could be the best way to find solutions to your problems.  Is the earth in between clouds or are the clouds covering the earth, what is your perception?

Happy New Year

Everything has to end and there is a new beginning after that end. Every year we celebrate the end of the day and welcome the new year ahead of us. I have always wondered why do we celebrate at the New Year's eves? Is it because we are running away from the past or we just need a reason to drink and party. I believe it is a day to realize what is happening in your life. A day to introspect of what you have done and what you want to become. To get hold of your behavior or your thinking. I had an eventful year as i got engaged and married in the same year.I moved to a different country and traveled few places in the world. I met new people and made new friends.In all this hustle i forgot what is happening to me.

It took a lot of time to realize the situations, to accept the circumstances and to react to every action. People say in this 21st century it is easy to change and more easy to adapt to changes. But are we really changing; accepting new norms; learning latest trends? I can only say for myself and i did that in the year 2016. I have met a new me who has pushed herself to her last limits of patience and perseverance. Hope 2017 brings a lot better in me and a great opportunity to develop myself. A very happy and safe new year to all. Let's try and do what we say - one at a time!

New city

London is the city of history and culture. Everything here is dated and has some story behind it. But suburbs are pretty quiet and there is not much to do (i am still trying to find something happening).As a city it is very welcoming because a lot of people from different places of the world have come and settled here. It accepts everyone and I couldn't see why people complained about British people.However the time i have spent here has given me a wider perspective to life and i have also found my interests, what i really want to do. PHOTOGRAPHY. And i will be sharing my experiences with you and hope you will like it.My first attempt of doing photography was in Summer 2016 when my husband was going to work and i said "i will walk you to the station". After saying goodbye to him, I don't remember when i started taking pictures and it kind off became an everyday thing to go out to take pictures. Sharing some of those pictures here: Hope you guys like it. I will be telling you more about my experiments with Photography!

Friendship Tales!

It really hurts me that even in after so many years there are people who don't respect your feelings. Here is a story of people ditching their friends when they needed them the most. Story 1 Kindergarten are the days of playing in the sand or eating chalk, it is about playing with kitchen sets or being a teacher in your own class after school. In a small school named "Angels" were two such small girls who were friends. They played and studied in school together. They danced and did swimming in activity classes together. They made friends together. It was all good until one of them started practicing the real life lessons in their friendship. Soon there were two groups with two leaders to choose from. Friends were pressured to be in one of the groups. The good girl did not say anything and moved on. All teachers loved her and more than that her parents loved her. She won people's hearts and respect and forgot about friendships. This was her first failure if you may call that with making friends. Story 2 In between the classes of different subjects, there was chaos of students running up and down to find out which classroom they were supposed to sit in. The everyday schedule consisted of 10 hours in college understanding almost 10 different subjects. To remove the pressure and frustration, there was a girl and guy who started sharing things, personal life, likes and dislikes, general talks over tea or intense discussions over lunch. They had become so comfortable they forgot about their environment but other people noticed. Soon there was teasing and questioning. He chose to leave her and make other friends. He did not know why he did it and did not answer her when she asked questions. She let him go and moved on. She held her parents with whom she was transparent and whom she had told about him. This was another way of letting go friendship. Story 3 After knowing each other for 3 years they were best of the friends. These girls would plan every festival with each other or some random trip of shopping. They were so close that they would not be shy to change in front of the other or buy girl garments. One day one of them was getting married. The other one was happy for her and was helping. She too found someone and got married. Suddenly everything changed. She did not treat her the same way. She would say wrong things in public to her and not be on her side. Soon the good one realized that the friendship is not real. She stuck to her husband and gave away the friendship. I don't see why people have to be like this. There is no clear checklist to be found while making friends. Because you never know in what situation who will become what. But all you can do is be true to yourself and your conscience that's how you will never hurt anyone.

Agar wo samajh paye toh

Jab mile the tum ittafaq se,
Zid pakdi thi humne khudse,
Chahiye tha tumhara saath jindagibhar,
Rakha humne tumhe sarankhopar,
ye umeed se tum hi ho,
Pehchan karaye meri mujhse jo,
Nahi rehta wo sheesh mahal me,
Samanya roop me khada hai samne,
Na tumhari paas khandani daulat hai,
Par dusro ko khush karneki tumhari aadat hai,
Kiya hai humne tumse pyar,
nahi keh paenge hum ye baar baar,
Isse humari kamjori na samajhana e dost,
Hum kitna bhi chupa le par,
Humari aankhein sab bol deti hai har baar!!

Lessons learnt

It's not necessary you get Reaction from people everytime you Say something,
it's not Obvious that people will pay Attention to every detail of your conversation,
It's not Abnormal if people dont Respond to your messages,

Because everyone in this world is not same, we were born in different Houses, distinct Families, diverse Cultures, varied Upbringings, and so many other factors which Differentiates each and every person from the other.

So think twice before Expecting something from someone because...
it's not necessary that the person whom you consider Important feels the same for you.

Everyday

We all get irritated with early morning alarms,
we crib and shout when we get stuck in traffic or people in buses have sticky arms,
Its normal to complaint about work,
talking shit continuosly or acting like jerk,
We want our people all the time,
But use cellphones in front of them is a crime,
We take a lot of things for granted,
Someone gets us food, with which lot of efforts they have planted,
We dont worry about fetching water,
Or cleaning roads or gutters,
still we cry and crib about our lives,
Even if we have most beautiful children and wives,
lets thank God for whatever we have today,
Because we wont loose but earn our own faith when we pray EVERYDAY!!

Anokhi yaadon

E raat j anokhi hati, ke hato navo suryoday, thandi ma tari sathe pidheli garam cha ke modha bagadta padela fota, na suvana bahane muvi jovana toh bus na sathe na javano afsos hovana,

Baa e toh mari boundary pan ema majha radhe e kari lidhi,Manyu hatu ek lagan sathe ke khavdaviti basundi hate, divas kya puro thayo eni noti jaan haji tu hato mane ajaan,

Samay eni gatie niklyo pan aa rastama tu pacho malyo, aa vakhte ek alag olkhan hati tu tu noto ne hu e noti, ek bija parno hak vadhyo tu have saro mitra banyo

Sathe rehvano agrah ke sathe besvani hatt, bija koi sathe jau toh gusso tane avto jatt, geeto na taal par apde nachya, khabar nai kyare apda man malya, tane risato mukine hu jati rai, man marta marta khabar nai kyare sui gai

Biji savar taro risatu modhu joi, mane khatri hati thayu che kai, mohabateein na karansar no apvano malyo avsar

Have kai baki notu, badhu lagva lagyu junu, mane mukine market gayo tyare maro chadyo paro, breakup ni vaat thi avyo mane gusso pan nachvama kudka mari kadhi didho, bhukh lagiti mane pan kolya bharavya tane, ek bija sathe rehvana karan sodhta, najik avya apde ajanta,

E raat nu varnan nai kari saku, ene yaado maj samavi rakhisu vadhu, ungh mane avtiti pan tane tara jeevan ni badhij vaato keviti, room sudhi mukva avyo tyare tari aankho ma me ek dost ne joyo

Savare call karine mane uthadi, apde be vache ek alag relationship hati, breakfast sathe karine tane cha pivdavine, chuta padvano time avi gayo, aapda rasta same hata pan sathe chalvano moko na malyo,akha raste msgs karya afsos karyo pan beech raste apde pacha malya, tari bajuma besvano ehsas alag hato, pan kem evu lagyu ke tu tya manthi noto, mane pacha na malvano dar bari mathi bye karta dekhayu

Jeevan ni e kshano pachi nai avse pan jyare pachal valine jois toh e mane tari yaad jarur dilavse ke hato ek saro mitra jene hu samjhi.shaktiti pan eno saath kshanbhar hato aa vaat mane hamesha rulavse!!

जुडली अशी ही नाती..

नकळत आज कशी,
जुडली अशी ही नाती,

जिथे मोठ्या-लहानाचा वाद नसे,
ऐकुन न घेण्याचा राग नसे,
जिथे रोज दिवसभराचे सँवाद असे,
जन्म जन्मांचे स्नेह दिसे,
नकलत आज कशी, जुडली अशी ही नाती.

स्वार्थापोटी कोणाचे काम न्हवे,
संकटातातुन वाचवायची आशा न्हवे,
निस्वार्थ प्रेम दिसे इते,
कोणाच्या जिवाची मांगणी न्हवे,
नकळत आज कशी, जुडली अशी नाती.

Thats how she said a goodbye!!

If i could tell you what all i am going through,
My love for you is the same even if our time has flew,
past are the days when we could talk for hours,
Think of fancy dates, drinks and rosy flowers,
Our times wont come back and its known,
But with all the immaturity we have grown,
enough to understand that love is not time bound,
It happens only once in life when it is truly found,
We are each others first and will always be,
Even though we try to hard to be free,
To be able to talk for few minutes is not difficult,
But it becomes a habit to be together and thats not easy,
Baby it took me a long time to go away from you,
Which i never wanted to,
Its a crucial time for both of us,
Lets not make it a fuss,
i still love you and will always will,
Till my heart beats or i die ill,
Please dont be upset or angry,
because anything happens in life for you i will always be free.!!

"बिदाई"

जब एक लङकी की शादी की बात शुरु होती है तब घर में काफी अलग माहौल होता है. लङकी के मा बाप कभी अपनी लाडली को डांटते हैं तो कभी उसे पागलों जैसा प्यार करके उसके सारे नखरे सहते हैं. ससुराल में कैसे रेहने की आदत डालते समय मां ये भुल जाती है कि अब उसे भी अकेला रहने की आदत डालनी पडेगी. पापा उसकी हर इच्छा पुरी करना चाहते हैं.

एक तरफ घर में खुशी का माहौल है त्योहार जैसा जष्न है तो दुसरी ओर अपनों से दुर जाने का गम भी है. भाई बहन आज भी उसकी खिचाई करते हैं उसे तंग करते हैं पर एक पल के लिए रो देते हैं. इसके बाद वो लोग ऐसा हक नहीं जता पाएंगे उसे ऐसे मना नहीं पाएंगे.

घर के बडे अपनी सारी दुआंएं अपनी पोती पर बरसा देते हैं. वे तो केवल इसी बात से संतुष्ट हैं कि आज ये दिन देखने के लिए ही वो जिंदा हैं. शादी में ऐसे बैठतें हैं जैसे उनकी पोती दुनीया की सबसे बडी अपसरा हो और उसको ऐसा बनाने का श्रेय वे खुदको देते हैं.

सब अपनी मस्ती में गुल है. हसना, गाना, बजाना, खाना खिलाना, नाचना नचाना सब कुछ एक साथ चल रहा है. एक अविस्मर्णीय आनंद का वातावरण है. हर तरफ शोर है पर इन सब के बीच उस लडकी के मन में हो रहे शोर की आवाज कोई सुन नहीं पाता. उसके मन और मस्तिष्क में एक कलरह चल रहा है. वो सब जानते हुए भी इस भीतर की अशांती को शांत नही कर पाती. पती के साथ संसार करना है पर अपने मा बाप की स्वास्थ्य की चिंता है. नए लोगों को अपनाना है पर पुराने रिश्तों की डोर छोडनी नहीं है. मुश्किल है ये निभाना पर ये चुनौती उसे स्वीकार है उसका एक ही कारण है समर्पण! जब लडकी ये समझ जाती है तब वो अपने(मायके) घर से हर्ष और आत्मीयता से अपने(ससुराल) घर बीदा लती है.

Stop the 'bargain'

Walking down the highway or travelling in public transport, you realize a lot of things that you fail to notice in normal life. There are people who stay on footpaths or below the bridges. Their clothes are torn or their faces are burnt, their legs are broken or their hands are cut. Its not they want to live like that but it is their choice to get adapted to such conditions. They are humans and thats what we fail to understand.

While travelling in bus or train, you often see people begging or selling stuff like bangles, pouches, stationery or any such item. Its not their choice but their financial conditions which make them do this. However they are the most honest and hard working lot of 'working class' in India. Its not just their job but their daily bread. Amongst all this, they still manage to have a family, raise kids, educate their children and feed the house. Its not an easy task. We fail to realize that the 2rs that we just bargained for could add up to become their child's daily school fees. We donot think of bargaining in a supermarket or a shop then why do it with the people who need the most. A vegetable seller down the lane, roadside hawkers, people selling in trains etc..are the ones who need money more than the people who are enjoying in air conditions.

Lets help people live a better life!

Prem

Jeevan ma ghanu badhu male pan prem malvo bau aghru che
te koini pasethi milkat ma nathi malto na toh te rishvat apine kharidi sakay che, bau ocha manso ne sacho prem male che pan emathi amuk j eva manso hoy jene eni kimmat nahi pan eni hakikat samjhay che, ghana toh prem ne pachavij nathi sakta ne ghana tene nibhavi nathi sakta, harsh ma malelo prem kokne swarg thi vadhare khubsurat lage toh dard ke virah no prem mrutyu karta pan vadhare dukhdayak lage che, prakruti no niyam e aapda manav srushti karta alag ne anmol che je manav ne sikhvade che ke prem khali apvano hoy mangvano nahi prem e ek anubhuti che dekhado nahi pan jyare ej prem aapdi kamjori bane tyare ene chodi devano hoy, e kharab che etale nahi pan mara lidhe ene tras na thavo joie etale..jo aajno manav aatlu samjhine prem kare toh koi kyare prem na lidhe dukhi na thay

Indian politics

I never took interest in this topic but then came the times of educated president and highly qualified prime minister. Yes i am talking about Abdul Kalam and Manmohan Singh. That was the time when i started understanding what is politics about, how it is handled and what goes in handling country affairs. All the demands of the population of a country are not easy to be fulfilled but these people take so much efforts to give what we ask for. With the rise of inflation and corruption, I soon lost the little interest i had. Then i realised that its not about the person who comes in position its about the attitude that we the common people have about our own country its condition and the way we want it to be. Having prejudices about any person/leader or the government wont help to make this a better place to live but expressing and taking initiatives to change the way we want our surroundings to be.

Just when i had thought that nothing is going to happen, came a man (i would call him an iron man) who gave me a reason to take interest again in the politics of India. He did nothing to get sympthy or press compulsorily to get votes. He gave a vision, an aim to strive hard to help India progress which he had already done in the state of Gujarat, giving a live example to help people believe in him. Prime Minister Narendra Modi, by swearing today in front of the country, you swore not just to do your duty as a prime minister but you swore to show us a beautiful and prosperous India. I dont expect you to be a magician who will change everything by moving a wand but to maintain what you had and try to implement all the ideas you have promised the people. In this race of getting seats and posts, i hope it doesnot get into your head and you accomplish your responsibilities carefully. With your oath, lets hope that we will be able to see the best of India in the future.