Thursday 25 August 2016

Friendship Tales!

It really hurts me that even in after so many years there are people who don't respect your feelings. Here is a story of people ditching their friends when they needed them the most. Story 1 Kindergarten are the days of playing in the sand or eating chalk, it is about playing with kitchen sets or being a teacher in your own class after school. In a small school named "Angels" were two such small girls who were friends. They played and studied in school together. They danced and did swimming in activity classes together. They made friends together. It was all good until one of them started practicing the real life lessons in their friendship. Soon there were two groups with two leaders to choose from. Friends were pressured to be in one of the groups. The good girl did not say anything and moved on. All teachers loved her and more than that her parents loved her. She won people's hearts and respect and forgot about friendships. This was her first failure if you may call that with making friends. Story 2 In between the classes of different subjects, there was chaos of students running up and down to find out which classroom they were supposed to sit in. The everyday schedule consisted of 10 hours in college understanding almost 10 different subjects. To remove the pressure and frustration, there was a girl and guy who started sharing things, personal life, likes and dislikes, general talks over tea or intense discussions over lunch. They had become so comfortable they forgot about their environment but other people noticed. Soon there was teasing and questioning. He chose to leave her and make other friends. He did not know why he did it and did not answer her when she asked questions. She let him go and moved on. She held her parents with whom she was transparent and whom she had told about him. This was another way of letting go friendship. Story 3 After knowing each other for 3 years they were best of the friends. These girls would plan every festival with each other or some random trip of shopping. They were so close that they would not be shy to change in front of the other or buy girl garments. One day one of them was getting married. The other one was happy for her and was helping. She too found someone and got married. Suddenly everything changed. She did not treat her the same way. She would say wrong things in public to her and not be on her side. Soon the good one realized that the friendship is not real. She stuck to her husband and gave away the friendship. I don't see why people have to be like this. There is no clear checklist to be found while making friends. Because you never know in what situation who will become what. But all you can do is be true to yourself and your conscience that's how you will never hurt anyone.